If you are in a serious relationship, does that mean you should not go to the club or bar, like spending the Friday night in San Diego with your girl friends to make your own moments of fun and entertainment?
Of course, not! In a relationship, there are three lives: his independent life, your independent life, and your mutual life, where you do things together.
Most people believe that they must give up their independent lives and be attached at the trend. And most women are, especially, irrational about this; while men go on to do as they please.
For either party, to stop the other from having their own independent life is a major problem and it shows that the person trying to forbid his partner has huge insecurity, immaturity and serious control problems.
Nevertheless, if you are in a relationship — serious dating, engaged or married — it’s not acceptable to go to the bar and slow dance with men, or get drunk and sit on men’s laps, but it is absolutely okay to go out with friends and have fun.
I miss grinding. 
February 24th, 2008 at 10:25 pm